DO YOU RESPOND OR REACT? HOW TO LESSEN THE DRAMA

AUGUST 13th, 2009:   Do you Respond or React?  Which one Quiets The Mind?

I am feeling that vibe from the universe where I can tell folks are experiencing super busy minds but tiredness at the same time.  Perhaps its end of summer buzz where we feel an energetic shift taking place and are in the process of making a million decisions for the next month.  Well whatever the reasons I thought we'd focus tonight on clearing the mind and relaxing our hearts.  Our philosophical focus on the difference between reacting and responding (only one is healing)!

We will begin seated with meditation, then recline followed by some supine poses to calm and relax. After this we will use standing poses to anchor us more fully into the moment.  Finally I will guide us through a step by step approach to learning handstand (working at our own pace) so that you can practice this pose safely at home.  At the end of practice we will enjoy an extra long final relaxation to bring it all together.   

The poses will help us practice making choices. For we are surrounded with choices some more obviously healthy than others.  Yoga wakes us up so we can be more present to the choices we are presented and from there we choose to either react or respond.  These aren’t the same thing.  Reacting is negative and Responding is positive. Which one are you doing?

Reacting is out of control feeling that just eats up our energy where we are too caught up in the details to understand the situation. Examples include excessive worry and anger.  Whereas responding in calm and mindful and we are fully in charge of our feelings so no energy is wasted. We see the big picture.  “Respond” comes from two root words: Re- meaning Back, and Spondere meaning “To Pledge.”

As a result in this practice we learn about our old ways of reacting, our habits and instead pledge to ourselves to create healthier habits and respond in a quiet way without the drama.  In this way we no longer ourselves trigger fight or flight response with every decision and instead remain more calm.  The sympathetic nervous system remains easeful and the mind finds quiet.  It’s all here for you to discover on the mat.  Love the day! Silvia

 

8/13/2009   Tags:  reacting, responding, healthy, fight or flight response, relaxing, drama, practice Direct Link

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